I received an email from a friend of the family seeking companionship, whom I remember from showing porno movies to my girlfriend at the time. Obviously he is in a different head now because he wants a serious relationship.
Erk!
Here are the correspondences.
Yes, I remember you.
I’m living here now. Not easy, but a good change from the states.
Meeting proper Thai women is fairly easy, as the people are open to strangers.
If you come out, you should plan on a stay of 10-21 days
My friend knows a few online meeting sights
You might want to try those first
Cheers
My friend’s reply
Thanks for your reply. I’d be happy to try the online meeting sights … do you know the website addresses? What town do you live in? Is it a particularly good town in which to meet Thai women? What would you suggest (after trying the online sites) if I were to plan a trip? When is a good time to come? Should I come to visit you or go to a different town? What are your thoughts?
My response
I don’t know of any meeting sites
You could check on the internet
I live in Pattaya, which is about 2 hrs south of Bangkok.
It’s a seaside city renowned for its nightlife
You might want to try Chiang Mai, which is a northern city and a little more
Sedate not sleazy.
I chose here, because it’s comfortable and modern ie good internet
connections and food and not far from Bangkok or several beautiful islands.
It’s heading into low season, so things are cheaper, but also the weather is warmer.
Buy yourself a ROUGH GUIDE for Thailand
Offers a good overview of the country
June-Sept is the rainy season. Torrential for a few hours a day.
You can come visit us. It’s not far and a good launching spot
My wife also has a few friends
Cheers
I’m trying to sound like I have a normal life here. He knows my family.
Newby’s answer
Thank you again for your response, and for your offer to visit you and your family. You have a beautiful family … thanks for the pic! I recently read a book about the town in which you live. I’ll say it’s renowned for its nightlife!!! My only fear about Pattaya is that most of the women (according to this book) are interested in one thing, and one thing only …MONEY!!! The author of the book suggests that if a foreigner is traveling to Pattaya to find the woman of his dreams, he has come to the wrong place… he may find the most fun (and expensive) 10 days of his life, but not his wife! Perhaps the several beautiful islands near Pattaya that you mentioned might be good places to go?
I think it would be best to be introduced to friends of your wife rather than trying to find the few women in Pattaya who are not “women of the evening”. Thank you for offering. I’ll let you know when we are planning on traveling. Thanks!
I am at a loss to telling him the truth
Pattaya is not only renowned but infamous
There are thousands of demimondaines, ten of thousands of respectable
Females flock here to work in the tourist trade ie guides, cooks,
waitresses et al. They work 5-6 days a week. their nights are free and they like to enjoy themselves. Dining and preening.
Bangkok is a huge city.
Pattaya is a smaller and more manageable version.
The islands of Koh Chang and Samet are 3 hrs and 1 hr away respectively.
Cambodia and Angkor Wat is a plane ride away or else 6 hours by car.
Plan on a longer trip than normal as the usual 7-10 days are not enough as a day is lost both coming and going on the airplane.
One word of advice.
The woman of your dreams only exists in your dreams.
For every beautiful woman there is a man down the street tired of fucking her.
I’ve been with Nu 4 years. Not all of them easy, but our daughter is the cement for our love, plus our little dog.
the fish in the pond died last night, so they’re history
Once more no preconceived notions, but be aware that nothing is as it seems neither here or in the USA, as you probably have discovered
RVSP
That is good advice from a sage and seasoned married man. Lest you think that I am completely naive, I too was married at one point in my life … it was long ago, when dinosaurs roamed the planet … but I do vaguely remember that women of my dreams do, in fact, only exist in my dreams! However, Thai women may come closer than many of the women in my history! Who knows?!
I’m sorry about your fish. I held a moment of silence in my office today.
I expect him in April.
Do I take him to a ka-toey or lady boy bar the first night?
You know it.
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